I'm back to classes, so that means I have to be near her again, we are at 22 day of contact cero, we don't talk at all and I avoid her, but I really miss her, she did a lot things wrong, like cheating... but I really miss her, I heard her talking with a girl about a guy putting her in cf, and it's like ok, we dont talk she can do whatever she wants but, still hurts, how could I manage my feelings?
Last updated on:2025-08-19T22:37:03+05:30
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sounds like you’re doing the no contact right, just that being near her forces reminders. the way you describe hearing her talk, it’s like the break already happened but your body hasn’t caught up, so feelings show up anyway.
and remember, it is not like they are not feeling what u are feeling.The problem is that ,they want u to miss them soo bad
I know it’s hard and there’s nothing wrong with missing her. You’re enough and that’s her problem for not appreciate you that loves her wholeheartedly. Grief all you want and take your time. As time goes by, you’ll get used to her absence and that’s what I told myself everyday for almost 2 years. It took me almost 2 years to move on especially when he insisted we stay in contact and be friends which makes it harder for me to move on. Trust that everything will be alright even it takes months or years to do it. I know it sucks, it feels like she’s moving forward like it’s nothing while you’re stuck while carrying all baggage. But remember you deserve someone who truly loves you and whenever you’re missing her remember the pain that she has caused.
i get the missing part, even when they treated you bad. i had that with my ex, sat next to him in lectures, my chest tight every time he joked with someone new. missing doesn’t mean forgetting what he did, it’s just the mind catching up slower than the truth.
i remember being in class after my ex cheated. she was laughing about some guy too. i wanted to scream, like how can you betray me then act normal around everyone else. i hated that i still cared when she moved on so fast.
Please remember that you deserves better. Cheating is unforgivable. If you can’t be true to your partner, you can’t be true to yourself and that is not what you deserves in a partner. I know it hurts, but it has nothing to do with you, she’s the one with issues. ❤️Remember your worth. 🙏🏻❤️
I know but that doesn't stop me from missing her...