Day 2 of No Contact
Today is Day 2, and I already feel so much better than before. Cutting contact has truly helped me feel lighter, like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I’ve been wanting this for so long, but I couldn’t do it because he kept clinging on and wanting to stay in contact. I’m glad I discovered the things he did, which allowed me to finally cut contact. Although I still have thoughts and memories of him, they are mostly the negative ones—the times he betrayed and lied to me, and the hurtful things he said.
Today, I also found a place to move to, and I’m so thankful that I can start a new chapter without telling him any updates about my life. I’m doing great and looking forward to what comes next.
Last updated on:2025-08-20T10:28:02+05:30
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timing lined up for you. finding out the lies, having somewhere else to move, being done with giving updates. day 2 feels good now, and it might not always, but the start is what matters.
the first few days of no contact, it felt strange but also lighter. the silence actually felt safe. moving to a new place made it easier for me too, like i had space that was mine again.
when i went no contact i was so pissed i even gave him the chance to keep texting me before. like why did i let someone who lied so much still have access to me. i hated seeing his name pop up. it just kept reminding me he got away with shit.
🫂🫂 it’s ok. I used to feel the same way and he always got away with things and never took accountability and rarely apologise what he’s done to me. When I found out the truth, I realised I don’t need any closure or explaination from him. He don’t deserve your anger, tears and attention. Block his ass and it is not your fault. It’s his issue for being immature.
My day 2 too. fighting! We can do it.
🫂yess fighting!!
I felt the exact same way the first few days into my healing journey. until few days ago when the pain hit me like a storm. I am a crying mess, at work, at home or even wen I’m out. I feel the tears stinging my eyes begging to spill. whoever said healing isn’t linear was so correct. my heart is shattered but I’m leaning unto God. we got this people.🤗 we can do this
it’s alright 🫂healing journey is never easy but you’ll be fine. When we broke up, I’m a mess as well and it took me 2 years to cut contact after we broke up. After all the tears and pain, I’m feeling much better than before and it’s alright to cry again. it’s part of the healing process. God knows what’s best for us and God will guide you through it🫂
I am so happy for you! Reading these words is inspiring, they make me believe in a better future for myself. Thank you for sharing!
you’ll get better❤️ Trust that everything will be fine. It may take awhile but it is worth it🫂