Its day 45 and I want so much to be over him. I feel replaced and like my life is being overwritten with his new person liking posts of mutual friends. He literally went into a new relationship with her as he was breaking up with me. So I'm dealing with the humiliation and its harder than just merely being broken up with.
Last updated on:2025-08-20T04:53:02+05:30
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what stands out is how fast he moved while you were still in it. it makes sense that it feels like your life got overwritten, because the timeline never even separated. you’re still catching up to what already happened to him
Everything's going to be alright champ
every day is my worst I cry everyday for his attention.he doesn't understand at all .I'm pregnant with his baby BT no attention.if he is around he will be on his phone forever ,I don't deserve this treatment I don't know what to do
i get the humiliation part. i remember feeling like everyone could see me being swapped out. it’s not fair you have to carry that weight on top of heartbreak. it hurts in a different way when it’s so public
So true. I feel I am crying from the humiliation and feeling less worthy (although I know I am very strong and independent) through this. Therr is this constant tug of war between my head and my heart. like why the hell do I even care if he chose someone else. But its just the action of that somehow sends a message that he has done better somehow... crazy
i hated that part most. watching someone slide right into your spot like you were nothing. i kept thinking wow i must’ve been so easy to forget. i felt replaced before i even had time to breathe
really feels unbelievable. we were together 6 years and just like that its over
I understand how you are feeling and I know it is overwhelming.
What helps me is focusing on what I can control: myself. In order to do so I unfollowed him on social medias, I deleted our Whatsapp chat and for a month I deleted his phone number too. My ex went into a new relationship as well, but there is nothing I can do about it. I chose to take time to listen to myself and heal, instead of getting into a new relationship to cover up the pain and the void.
Please, do not feel humiliated. His actions are not a reflection of your worth! They say more about him as a person than about you!