So I have been dating this guy for quiet awhile now he makes me feel unwanted like I'm forcing myself on him.Everything that I say is like insult to him. So recently I found out that he was dating a girl before we even met and he claims they have broken up so I didn't belive. So after that incident I decided to check up on him and he acted all mad at me which makes me question I'm I not the one to be angry. He even forced himself on me just yesterday when I went to his house to take my things and it feels traumatic to be the second option and being raped. I don't know if I should break up with him.What should I do please help me out
Last updated on:2025-08-21T00:13:02+05:30
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it sounds like you already answered your own question. you went to his place for closure and left feeling hurt. that’s not what happens when someone cares. that’s what happens when someone doesn’t respect you.
i’m so sorry you went through that. i remember going to grab my things from my ex and he turned it into something i never agreed to. i felt gross and small after. it’s confusing because part of me still cared about him but i also knew he crossed a line.
when i read this i got pissed. i used to keep asking myself why i was the one apologizing when i should’ve been the one mad. i stayed way too long with a guy who twisted everything on me and acted like i was crazy. i wish i had trusted that first gut punch instead of waiting for more proof.
I choose to leave him in silence without telling him nothing cause silence is the best answer to a fool
girl you know what you should do.. you don't him you will be fine just pls don't let anyone treat like that .. you deserve to be the only option... ik that because i was also the second option but when i know i always left