its been 2 weeks man its still hard im still thinking about him when does this stop

two weeks is nothing. your brain hasn’t caught up to the change yet. mine kept acting like he was still around for a long time.

i couldn’t sleep without replaying his face. it slowly faded, not all at once, just less sharp each week.

took me months. i’d be out with friends and still checking my phone like an idiot. i hated how much space he still took in my head.

for me it's been 20 days and he still comes in my head

it’s been close to 2 months and he is still creeping in to my brain making me question if I made the right choice. I don’t cry as much as I did but now tears come at the drop of a dime and can be triggered by something even as small as smell. prayer has brought me a good deal of solace and it will get easier but honestly if your in a position where you were with an avoidant the chances are that your healing will be further along before they actually start to deal with it. Keep your head up starshine, it will get easier <3

Reemalkhatee 6 mths ago

im not crying alot its almost that im not crying even but the burn that I feel inside my heart and the memories keep passing in my brain randomly and its torturing me

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It's different for everyone, but one thing I can assure you it gets much better with time and focus on yourself rather than him.

honestly, it feels so hard to escape until one day it’s almost a drag to think about him. he isn’t important in your path in life- his purpose taught u a lesson that you won’t forget but other than that he isn’t important to you anymore.

Listen to some music and get a journal then curse him out as much as u can🫂

Do not rush it! Taking it day by day helped me a lot. It has been two months now and I still think about him, but the pain has lessened

Reemalkhatee 7 mths ago

but I dont want him in my mind any more

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