I saw a tiktok that said: “when he saves a snap in chat but my chest was showing”. and I realised how much I relate. I have a large chest size and it’s hard to hide that but when it hit me that I was being so objectified and thought it was sweet. made me rethink some things. why do men think they have the right to look at you like that. Hell no.
Last updated on:2025-08-23T02:31:47+05:30
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what you noticed says a lot. you thought it was care, but it was just him holding onto an image. that shift in how you see it makes sense.
i had a big chest too and it felt like no matter what i wore someone turned it into a thing. it’s exhausting when you just wanna be seen as a person.
I feel you.
i used to think it was kinda flattering when a guy stared or saved pics. now it makes me sick thinking how little he actually saw me. just body parts, not me.
same.