Day 23 for me and the no contact is still intact but I have realized that it’s not about missing him as a person but the illusion in my head of what it could have been like
Last updated on:2025-08-21T03:45:12+05:30
Day 23 for me and the no contact is still intact but I have realized that it’s not about missing
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you’re starting to see it’s not him you’re craving, it’s the picture you built. that shift usually means the breakup fog is clearing a bit.
most definitely 👍
i used to replay how things could’ve been if he loved me different. what helped me a little was reminding myself he already showed me who he was, and it wasn’t matching what i hoped for.
i remember realizing i was missing some fantasy version i made up in my head. the real guy wasn’t even that great. pissed me off that i wasted so much time crying over someone who didn’t even exist the way i imagined.
exactly 100% agree with you. it made me feel like I had wasted so much of my time and energy on him 😢😢