it's day 20 i can't imagine myself being with someone else is not him

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it's day 20 i can't imagine myself being with someone else is not him. a guy asked to hang out ik it's nothing but even tho it's nothing im really not excited at all or anything it on Monday should i go guys? pls help me

Last updated on:2025-08-21T23:10:38+05:30

Comments (16)

Kiyara
Kiyara 6 mths ago

right now you sound like you’re trying to convince yourself either way. doesn’t matter what happens monday, you’re still on day 20 of missing him.

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

Dipssi
Dipssi 6 mths ago

saying yes to plans when i wasn’t ready. it didn’t feel exciting but i still went just to get out of the house. nothing magical happened but it wasn’t terrible either.

brainless
brainless 6 mths ago

i went on a date 3 weeks after my breakup. whole time i was just staring at him thinking why isn’t it my ex sitting here. i couldn’t even eat my food.

Unhealed
Unhealed 6 mths ago

I feel the exact same way. It's been 3 months for me. I won't be ready to date for a long time.

AlexHadADay
AlexHadADay 6 mths ago

I feel like that too, I just can't talk with other girls, it feels like cheating, but I m not together with her anymore tho. Go out, explore, enjoy yourself. Even if it doesn't go well, at least you can get an ideea what you can work on. I believe in you🙌

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

yeah that is the thing it's feels like cheating, thanks tho this really helps

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 6 mths ago

yeah that is the thing it's feels like cheating, thanks tho this really helps

AlexHadADay
AlexHadADay 6 mths ago

@DropVibe4 i know, i try to get out of that habit and still talk to them even if it feels wrong, but keeping it to a level i m comfortable to. It gets better with practice