I need an advice, yesterday she told a friend to give me a popsicle, he gave it to me, because we are in no contact since she blocked me when I stopped answering and leaving her in read one hour haha, she says that she misses me, she texted me saying that she thought about me when she got the popsicle so she sent it to me by a friend, then she wrote me at night saying " I miss u, dummy" I didn't answer i saw her at school today and she didn't even try to talk to me, I think that she's afraid to talk directly to me, she did by a message and a friend, but never really try to do it face to face, and I feel the need to ask her, what do you want from me? like, why are you sending people to tell me stuff that you wanna say to me, I dont like that, but in the other hand, I'm pissed with her attitude, what should I do?
Last updated on:2025-08-21T22:31:02+05:30
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sounds like she’s testing the waters. small moves through friends or texts, then backing off in person. not about the popsicle, more about seeing if you’ll respond.
i get why it’s confusing. i had an ex do the same, sending things through friends instead of just talking to me. i could tell he missed me but couldn’t handle being face to face. it doesn’t make it right, it just means she’s scared.
i’d be pissed too. she blocks you, then throws in some “i miss u” through other people like you’re supposed to just play along. if she can’t say it to your face, then what’s the point. feels like she wants control without actually showing up.
Go with your gut. If she's playing games with your heart, you don't need that in your life.