it's going be ten days tomorrow which is funny because I feel like I haven't talked to him in like months🤦does it get better? sometimes it feels like am doing good then the next minute am crying my eyes out wondering why couldn't we have just worked out. i tried talking to someone but they mentioned having sex and it felt like am cheating on my ex. sometimes am wondering why it's so hard to just move on🤦like I just want to be happy in someone's arms again and it's funny that I really want the someone to still he him. does it ever get better?
Last updated on:2025-08-25T02:30:04+05:30
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what you wrote about it feeling like months, that’s real. the clock moves slow when your mind keeps replaying stuff. it’s only been ten days, so of course it feels heavy. the timeline never matches the feeling.
that part about wanting it to still be him. i used to picture being held again and every time the face in my head was still his. it took me a long time before that changed, like my brain just wasn’t ready yet.
10 days feels like nothing and forever at the same time. i remember thinking i was fine then randomly bawling on the bus like some idiot. people kept telling me to just move on but i couldn’t even flirt without feeling gross.
it does get better trust that. And stay strong x you have got this x
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Besides affection, attention, attraction, and companionship lies our memories after a breakup. Our need to be acknowledged by another seems to overshadow our need to be given self love. So to answer your question Im unfortunately a "veteran" when it comes to processing a breakup. Have you acknowledged what it is that you can give yourself in terms of catering to your own emotions. What do you do to make yourself feel good about yourself?... One day at a time, I would simply suggest you make tomorrow all about you. No deed is too small nor selfish. Uplift you. Love on you a little more. Do something for you. Make yourself look and feel good. Spend some time really putting effort into making you happy the same exact way you want him to.
It gets better, I promise! However, it is completely normal to have bad days/moments. Allow yourself to truly feel your emotions