Been in a strange gray zone for a month. gave her the ultimatum: do you still want to be together with me. Still she gave me a maybe ish answer. I demanded a yes or no. in the end it was a no. now 7 months down the drain. In some way I am sad but also not sad. I have been for myself for 1 month. not seeing her or talking to her. just a couple of texts and meeting to talk leading to her not wanting to talk. what makes me cry is that I am going to miss her family. I have never felt so welcome then what they gave me.
Last updated on:2025-08-25T03:00:04+05:30
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he pushed for clarity, got the no, and now what hurts most isn’t her but the loss of the people around her. that part lingers longer than expecte
i get it about her family. i cried more for losing them than for her. it felt safe and warm with them in a way i didn’t even realize i needed.
her mom said we can still keep contact. we had sush good conection so that should not change anything even if iam not together with her daughter.
i remember that “maybe” answer. it felt like i was begging for scraps and still got nothing. all that time and it ended with a no. pissed me off more than sad honestly.
Iam all ready to move on and live but she is like we need to talk. Okey then talk say but in the end iam the one leading the conversation. I made my choice from the day we had that big fight I love her and want to be with her but she is the one hesitating. now I got my clarity iam willing to fight but she is not if it’s not on her terms. finally I got high ground and made her choose.