Day 9 of no contact. it’s been more than a week which I don’t realise how quick the time passed. I was busy and even at night I barely think about him anymore which is a good sign. However, yesterday one of his friends texted me randomly. I mean I know that one of his friends are known as the random guy and always texted me some random and unhinged stuff for no reason. I don’t mind that because that’s how he is but for some reason the way he texted me was kinda off even tho he told me he was bored that’s why he texted me. I don’t wanna give the detail and content of the text but my intuition tells me all of his friends know about the situation and I didn’t block all of his friends because I respect them since they never cross the boundaries and minding their own business. They never come to me and started to berating me for blocking my ex so I don’t really have the reason to block his friends as well since we’re civil. The moment I saw his friend texted me idk why I got this weird feeling and my anxiety kicks in. I think it’s because I’m scared he will find a way to reach out to me but thankfully he did not use his friends to reach out to me.
Last updated on:2025-08-28T02:16:02+05:30
Comments (4)
his friends have stayed in their lane before, and nothing came through this time either. your mind just jumped to the worst case when the text showed up.
even when someone means no harm, your body still reacts. i remember feeling anxious just seeing numbers i recognized. it eased once i reminded myself i didn’t owe anyone a reply.
this is scary for sure! even if he does get to you, ignore him. you are worth way more then him and it's not worth your time or energy. day 9 is awesome tho! I'm still on day 1 so i have quite a long way to go unfortunately. those triggers can be hard, but it's okay to feel emotions and take plenty of time to heal ❤️ I have a long way to heal as well but it's important to remember our feelings are valid and take out time and not focus any energy on them anymore
i hated that feeling, like the friend was just a messenger even if he swore he wasn’t. my chest would tighten every time their name popped up on my phone. made me wanna throw my phone across the room.