I am new on this app because I am seeking help healing, but basically about 5 days ago my boyfriend broke up with me. 3 days later he said he wanted to get back together. I said I needed time to think, but the next day I told him I'd give him another chance. He said he needed time to think about it and I asked him then why he reached out if he wasnt 100% certain and he said so that I don't forget about him so that he can work on himself and I won't have given up on us when he's ready. I took it as I'm just an "option". He asked me to give him until the end of today to go to therapy and decide, but I had to tell him no and that I am worth more then being someones option and that I gave him a second chance but he blew it and now it's over for real. I feel so hurt and confused and he's all I can think about, I almost even let him go to therapy and get back to me but I am worth more then just sitting around waiting for him to decide if he likes me or not. I don't know how to heal from this, I thought we were going to get married someday but instead I'm left so broken and unsure now on what to do or how to heal. I loved him so much and now I have an empty place in my heart where he used to be.
Last updated on:2025-08-27T17:45:05+05:30
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i felt that same empty spot when mine ended. i couldn’t stop picturing what we planned, the house, the future, and suddenly none of it was real. it took me a long time to believe i didn’t need him to prove i was worth more. right now it just aches but it won’t stay that sharp forever.
yeah i’d be pissed too. like you already said yes and then he pulled the wait let me think thing. feels like a mind game. i remember feeling like i was just there as backup, waiting around while he decided if i was worth it. it made me hate myself for even considering it.
Force yourself to get out of bed every morning. I know it's hard, but you have to do it.
If you belong together you'll find a way back in the future. and If not then it never was meant to be. but it gets easier every day. do things you like. Go out for a walk, even If you really dont want to. eat your fav food. eat loads of ice cream and watch stupid movies all night long. you'll heal.