Although we are still living in the same household- today I started packing up my belongings and although I don’t know how long I will have to remain here a range of emotions came over me… hurt, anger, resentment. Thankfully he wasn’t here but I felt so sad to think about how I put everything in to our relationship. Yes I accept we are over but still questioning where I went wrong and if I am just not cut out for relationships.
Last updated on:2025-08-28T11:41:22+05:30
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folding clothes into bags and crying because it felt like i was folding up parts of myself too. it’s normal to wonder what you did wrong but it’s not always about that. sometimes people just can’t meet you where you are.
when i started boxing up my stuff i felt like i was packing away years of my life for nothing. i kept thinking about all the energy i gave and how little it mattered in the end. i hated that i had to see my own things as reminders of being let down.
OMG! I feel like I could have written every word of this. Having to pack up my things and move out. Feelings of hurt, anger, resentment. Questioning where I went wrong and if I'm even cut out to be in a relationship. I'm on day 64 of no contact. It gets better, but it's a slow process.
Well done you for making it this far with the no contact- that’s brilliant progress.
I look forward to the day I get out of here and start the no contact aspect of my healing journey.
@Its0me0not0U best of luck to you!