was dating 9 months... shes a DA(dismissive avoidant) so she's cold were wrestling nothing . didn't have a title. but we said I love you and did everything couoles did were not teenager I don't have to say "will you be my gf" its just happens right.. set a hard boundary last night.. and went no contact but she's on my snap. and i keep checking which I hate.. broke up a month now.. but jts just been a month long push pull. she show interest flirts for a day then ghost. we even game gamed 2 or 3 times laughing joking .. but she know what I want so im so confused...
Last updated on:2025-08-29T03:03:03+05:30
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you already drew a line last night. even if she’s still on your snap, you decided the back and forth wasn’t working. what’s messing with you is she gives just enough attention to make you wonder again.
i had a situationship like that. we acted like a couple, said the same words, but it always felt like i was waiting for her to choose me. i know how confusing it is when you see the playful side and think maybe this time it means more.
i remember that stupid snap checking habit. felt like i hated myself every time i opened it but still did. she’d pop up, act sweet, then go cold again. it’s like being dragged by someone who won’t even admit they’re holding the rope.