we met on a dating app. we clicked immidiatly. texted the whole night. that went on for 2 weeks. daily messages, discord calls, then the first meeting. we went for a walk. we were holding hands and everything was perfect. he made some sexual comments but i didnt thought that much of it, we texted about sexual stuff. so its not a big Deal right? the next week everything was normal and perfect just like the weeks before. i have to add that he has a daughter (this is important for a later part) and his daughter was over at his flat for 3 weeks. so we texted and had discord conversation, he sended me some well spicy pics, i did the same. until he was alone at home again. and that was the first time i saw his flat. in was a one room flat. you come in into the flat and you're in his bedroom, the kitchen is right next to it (no door, just a curtain) and a bathroom. No Couch just a bed. nothing wrong with it. but it left me wondering.. when he was taking the Pics.. and his daughter was there.. did he send them when she was sleeping next to him? i kept telling myself that theres no way that he would do that. No human in their right mind would do such things.
Last updated on:2025-08-31T15:48:59+05:30
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nah you shouldn't be fine with this
it sounds like you were okay with the flirting and pics when it was just you two, but the moment the daughter came into the picture the vibe shifted. it stopped being just fun and started making you doubt what he was doing when you weren’t there.
yea.. i. mean she's 8. and probably was in the same bed as him as he made those pictures. i just dont get it. who in their right mind would do such things? thats just not "normal"
i get why your mind went there. i used to try and convince myself “nah he wouldn’t” too, but the fact i had to keep repeating that showed i didn’t feel safe. your gut only starts asking those questions when something feels off.
nah that thought would eat me alive. like i wouldn’t be able to unsee it. i once dated someone who crossed lines around kids and it made me sick. even if i wasn’t sure, just the fact i had to wonder ruined it for me.