I'm 8 days in no contact and I feel good.im starting to know my worth and I have stopped blaming myself for his mistakes.But it hurts sometimes that he has not reach out to apologise for his behaviour,buh I have blocked those mindset now and I feel free
Last updated on:2025-08-30T17:28:21+05:30
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you’ve moved past looking for him to do the right thing. that’s usually when it starts feeling less about what he didn’t do and more about what you’re doing now.
Congratulations! Would an apology really help? Or would it mess up your peace?
It might mess up my peace cause I will be contemplating to accept him or not which I don't want that's why I have blocked those mindset
i remember that switch when i stopped blaming myself too. it felt lighter. the hurt still popped up like random pangs but it didn’t own me anymore.
i waited on an apology for months and it never came. at some point i realized even if he said sorry it wouldn’t undo how he treated me. felt like i was begging scraps from someone who never cared.
An apologi… What would it help?! He did what he did and he know that he hurt you. He did it anyway. An apologi would be for him, not you. You deserves better.❤️Good to hear you are feeling free now, you deserves it. ❤️
I wish I could say I feel good, we’ve been broken up for a month now and I’m still struggling so much. I’m carrying his child so that doesn’t help make it any easier
ow sorry for that but you will also find peace sooner or later