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I'm 8 days in no contact and I feel good

I'm 8 days in no contact and I feel good.im starting to know my worth and I have stopped blaming myself for his mistakes.But it hurts sometimes that he has not reach out to apologise for his behaviour,buh I have blocked those mindset now and I feel free

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born2shine
born2shine 2 hrs ago

you’ve moved past looking for him to do the right thing. that’s usually when it starts feeling less about what he didn’t do and more about what you’re doing now.

LindaRG11
LindaRG11 13 hrs ago

Congratulations! Would an apology really help? Or would it mess up your peace?

Motionthing
Motionthing 13 hrs ago

i remember that switch when i stopped blaming myself too. it felt lighter. the hurt still popped up like random pangs but it didn’t own me anymore.

Jimanni
Jimanni 15 hrs ago

i waited on an apology for months and it never came. at some point i realized even if he said sorry it wouldn’t undo how he treated me. felt like i was begging scraps from someone who never cared.

PhoenixRise
PhoenixRise 16 hrs ago

An apologi… What would it help?! He did what he did and he know that he hurt you. He did it anyway. An apologi would be for him, not you. You deserves better.❤️Good to hear you are feeling free now, you deserves it. ❤️

WildAndFree907
WildAndFree907 17 hrs ago

I wish I could say I feel good, we’ve been broken up for a month now and I’m still struggling so much. I’m carrying his child so that doesn’t help make it any easier