Been in a relationship for four years
Been in a relationship for four years, five if I count the first year. it's been many lies to me about what he was up too, lied to go to the pub, lies about other girls and so on. Been a very on off relationship, he always finds a way to blame me for the breakups. This year we reconnected in January, he ended things in April, met again in juni, he ended it again same week. This time around he ended things again, I really thought we were on the right path, things feelt different and deeper. Yesterday he said he didn't want more contact for a couple of months sp he can forget stuff that's happened and his feelings for me. That comment hurts so much when I taught we had something deep togetherđ˘đ
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the part that stands out is how he ends it then comes back then ends it again. and now he wants months with no contact. it sounds like a cycle you didnât start.
i remember that drop in my stomach when he said he needed to forget things. i thought we were finally good too. itâs confusing when you believed it was deeper iâm sorry youâre in that.
Thank youâ¤ď¸
i hate how they flip it on you like itâs your fault, then act like theyâre the one who needs space. mine did the same, cheated then said he couldnât âhandle my trust issues.â like what.
Never take responsibility for the actions that make one react. Always other rules when it comes to someone else then themselvesđđŽâđ¨
You need to put some space between you two. You do not deserve an on-off relationship, because it brings around only pain and instability. Please, take care of yourself â¤