i’m at 41 days no contact!! it’s a pretty big achievement but i’ve got a bit of a problem. things have been getting so much easier by not talking to her, i’m starting to think about her less and the dreams about her are fading. however, in 5 days i’m going to have to see her when i get back to school. i’m not sure if this will set me back or not as im no where near fully healed. how am i meant to go back to school and see her? do i ignore her? do i try and be friends with her? do i just say hi? helppp
Last updated on:2025-08-30T05:20:04+05:30
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you’ve built space that helped, and now school will test it. happened to me too, the progress felt real but fragile when i had to share a hallway again.
i remember counting the days too thinking i was doing so well then suddenly having to face him. it was scary. it’s ok you don’t know how you’ll react yet. i didn’t either.
seeing mine again after no contact felt like someone ripped open stitches. i thought i was fine until she walked in the room. my chest burned and i wanted to run.