I was good friends with this girl 2 years ago and it died out but she texted me again about 6 weeks ago and our connection clicked straight away, she was perfect but she told me you recently broke up with her boyfriend 3 weeks before texting me but I new I could just be a rebound but we FaceTime and texted every single day and night for 5 weeks. I even introduced her to my family and everything but the one thing that confused me was she still had photos of her and her x together on instagram and she replied with we are just friends now. but also the x would ring her non stop and show up to her house which she hated and left so she could get away. The next day she saw him a spoke to him and she said he will give her space and what not. but she continued talking to me and seeing me every day. fast forward a week we had planned a trip but I ended up with Covid but 3 days later I was fine and instead she didn’t want to come cause she was worried of getting sick which is fair. But instead you went to hangout with her guy friends I suppose I’m not sure who the guy was. but that turned into an argument and then she ghosted me for 2 weeks. her response was I didn’t respect her space and was disrespectful cause I was so confused with everything being ghosted for 2 weeks. she went on to say it’s over. “we can be friends but I can’t see myself giving you my love again and being there for you”. but I was so confused how she could ghost me for 2 weeks and all I said was fuck this and hangup the phone and said go see your guy friend and have dinner with his family. My main question is was I just a rebound and could she be back with her x? what do I do?
Last updated on:2025-09-01T07:24:36+05:30
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he was still in between. saying she wanted space but still letting her ex show up, then talking to you every day. i’ve seen that before, it usually means she hadn’t figured out what she really wanted yet.
could she still come back or would she just completely move on to someone else?
i see the part where you introduced her to your family, that’s huge. i did that with someone too, thought it meant something solid, then they went back to their ex. it hurt so much, i kept asking what i did wrong. i get why you feel so confused.
yeah i was the rebound once. everything felt real till it didn’t. she was still tangled up with her ex too, telling me one thing and doing another. i remember wanting to scream every time i saw her pics with him still up. it all made me feel like trash after.
did she ever come back. how did you get past it.
You were probably a rebound. I'm sorry to say. Avoid the rebounders at all costs. Focus on you and your healing journey.
would she ever come back? if I was just a rebound
@FunkFox943 who knows. But you never want to be somebody's rebound.