yesterday I wrote a very long hurtful message that definitly will hurts him and make him feel he's not a man for not keeping his promises but then I decided not to send it because maybe he'll think about my words for the rest of his life , I don't know if I made the right choice but definitly won't send it to him
Last updated on:2025-09-01T03:37:02+05:30
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you held back because you imagined how long he might carry those words. says a lot about how much power you still think your voice has with him. i used to weigh that same choice.
i had one of those drafts sitting in my notes for months. it felt good to let it out even if i didn’t press send. sometimes the writing part is enough.
i wrote those too. i wanted him to feel small like he made me feel. i never sent it either. part of me still wishes i did just so he’d know.
Yes, don't send it...
He probably won't take accountability and in worst case, he will just shift the blame on you.
You're not losing anything by NOT sending the message.