you’re in shock. i did the same, counted days and wondered how he found someone so fast while i was still grieving. it always felt unfair, like we weren’t in the same breakup.
when my ex started dating right after we ended. i couldn’t breathe seeing it. i was still in pieces while he was smiling with her. it broke me but i get how you feel.
yeah i went through that. i was crying every night and he was already posting stories with some girl. felt like i was the only one wrecked while he just moved on. i hated him for that.
i was a rebound and i felt it since day 1. but then, he got feelings, we were together one year and a half. talked about marriage... but his ex was always there, as a friend. it was a ghost. we fought a lot because of her, i was crazy with her ghost. so, the "being there as a friend" method works just fine to destroy the new relashionship. but only very strong people can take being there for one and a half year, waiting. she was really waiting. but we both, me and her, lost. he is now with another rebound after me. one week after breakup. i'm not going to stay friend, it's unhealthy. now, i'm in such pain that i wish i could give a hug to his phantom ex and ask her: how did you handle this pain?
Comments (13)
you’re in shock. i did the same, counted days and wondered how he found someone so fast while i was still grieving. it always felt unfair, like we weren’t in the same breakup.
we're can I reach you Tru chat ?
hiii what's that?
i do have ig ^^ we can message there
@yearningwei what is ur ig?
@xuser14440 oo_ciee it's a girl with scarf and sunglasses ^^
same situation
when my ex started dating right after we ended. i couldn’t breathe seeing it. i was still in pieces while he was smiling with her. it broke me but i get how you feel.
yeah i went through that. i was crying every night and he was already posting stories with some girl. felt like i was the only one wrecked while he just moved on. i hated him for that.
i was a rebound and i felt it since day 1. but then, he got feelings, we were together one year and a half. talked about marriage... but his ex was always there, as a friend. it was a ghost. we fought a lot because of her, i was crazy with her ghost. so, the "being there as a friend" method works just fine to destroy the new relashionship. but only very strong people can take being there for one and a half year, waiting. she was really waiting. but we both, me and her, lost. he is now with another rebound after me. one week after breakup. i'm not going to stay friend, it's unhealthy. now, i'm in such pain that i wish i could give a hug to his phantom ex and ask her: how did you handle this pain?
She's on the rebound. I feel bad for the new guy because he probably has no clue. You never want to be somebody's rebound.
dang so during the time that we are still together i guess they are already talking. my friend saw then walking while holding hands
@yearningwei I'm sorry that happened to you. Try to ficus on yourself and your healing.