the other

Author

one week after the breakup he started a new relationship. we are non monogamous, so the cheating is not a thing. we were in no contact for 35 days. after that he said he loves me and hates that, that he still loved me, because he doesn't want to come back. he also said he is in love with the new girl. they are right now spending 12 days holydays in another country. i'm dying here. jelousy, envy of the infatuatuion fase he is in. she is gorgeous and intelligent. i'm insecure and fat and old. i just cry.

Last updated on:2025-09-01T17:52:50+05:30

Comments (8)

lovecamera
lovecamera 6 mths ago

watching my ex fall for someone else while i was still in pieces. i kept comparing myself, staring at her photos, telling myself she was everything i wasn’t. i cried until i couldn’t breathe.

LoloZin753
LoloZin753 6 mths ago

i cant find the words for such a pain. wake up in the middle of night with their image in my head. even sleeping, my brain doesnt stop the thinking.

Motionthing
Motionthing 6 mths ago

my ex did that too. barely a week later and he was parading someone new. i hated every picture i saw, hated myself more for even looking. it felt like being replaced like i was garbage on the curb.

LoloZin753
LoloZin753 6 mths ago

i cant look

Rhyleighann
Rhyleighann 6 mths ago

keep pushing you’ll be okay !

Kittykatswel
Kittykatswel 6 mths ago

Don't say that about yourself, just focus on yourself and forget about him, don't give him access to you so he spreads his toxic comments..
And stop stalking them it won't make you feel any better..

LoloZin753
LoloZin753 6 mths ago

didn't stalke. he told me. what i say about me is true, no need to disguise. i'm a 49 years old fat woman full of insecurities. im also super intelligent, talented writer, bright, funny and most generous. i know that. but it kills me the looks because she is not only cute, she is a knockout

Kittykatswel
Kittykatswel 6 mths ago

@LoloZin753
Well 49 isn't that old...
I only asked u not to follow his news and updates because it's gonna make u feel worse and u just gonna keep comparing yourself to her..
Do not give him access to u.