I haven’t broken up yet. I plan to do it Tuesday. I’m so scared. I’m breaking up because we have different goals, values, spiritual reliefs, finances etc. we’re just very misaligned but I love him so much. this is my first real relationship.
Last updated on:2025-09-02T05:40:19+05:30
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you’re holding a lot in that moment, wanting to do the right thing while still feeling love. i’ve seen that in myself too, freezing before saying it out loud.
how did it go?
i felt the same, scared and guilty at the same time. loving someone and letting go is so confusing. it’s ok to feel scared, it shows you cared.
how did your person take it? did you contact them again? he’s such a good person. he doesn’t deserve this. I’m so sad.
i remember staring at the words before sending them, hands shaking, hating that love wasn’t enough. i cried for days after, even though i knew it had to end.
did you contact them after? how did they take it? I’m in so much pain thinking about him
I'm undergoing a recent breakup. It was also my first relationship. It takes time to heal. You've got this!
thank you. did you break up with them or did they break up with you?
@WildNeo363 I broke up with him. I also love him so much, but it felt like I needed to break up with him even if I didn't want to.
@SweetChill250 thank you for sharing. I hope when we do it we can somehow remain in each other lives after I finish no contact. I’m not sure if that’s wise or healthy yet. I need to actually do the break up first. this is the hardest thing I ever had to do
@SweetChill250 how did you handle the days leading up to it? I’m talking to him as normal and he has no idea.