I did the worst thing I could do yesterday - I read our old messages, from the times when everything was still fine and he really cared about me. I still can't understand what I did wrong that he stopped trying.
Last updated on:2025-09-02T21:15:04+05:30
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reading those messages pulls you back to when things felt safe. i remember thinking if i could spot the exact moment it shifted, maybe i’d understand. it never gave answers, only more questions.
i did that once, read every sweet word, hoping it would make sense. it just made me miss who he was back then. it’s so painful not knowing why it changed.
i went through our chats too scrolled till my eyes burned. made me feel sick like all that love was fake. i hated myself for even opening them.
I know how you feel, that's why I always delete the messages so I don't go back and start overthinking everything.
i went through the same thing. Everything seemed like it was going so well then out of nowhere he ignored me completely for two days then I get a message from him saying thinks we should break up. I was devastated and tried pleading to him to let us talk this through, but he never responded. that night, I was scrolling through our messages and just wished that it wasn't real, that we were fine and everything was fine. it made me a total mess, as it would to anyone. But now, I have never felt stronger and happier. he was keeping me from living my fullest potential and and I realized that he never treated me right for multiple reasons. Looking back now, he never treated me like his girlfriend, and sometimes not even a person. So, I know it feels pretty bad right now, but it will get better. I can promise that. You will be so much better without him. And don't blame yourself either, if he just suddenly cut away from you, then that means he never deserved you. people who truly do care for you would be able to at least give you an explanation, and he didn't. just try to remember that you're free now and just make time for yourself everyday and it will get better, it just takes time. (it took me about 2 months to fully get over it, and now 3 months later, I feel like a new and improved me, the same will happen for you too)