we broke up about a week ago. He cheated on me more than once, forced me to do things I didn't want to do, manipulated me into believing I was in the wrong, made me cut contacts off with all my friends, threatened to end himself if I ever left, and yet, after he finally accepted the breakup, he moved on in 3 days (3-year relationship), and now he is good as new with his new and old friends. He looks happy but it eats me alive because I want him to know the pain he inflicted upon me. He framed me in every story he could and acted like a hero when in reality, he was a massive piece of trash. The fact that he moved on with 0 shame or guilt, and I can't does not let me rest.
Last updated on:2025-09-03T07:44:49+05:30
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it bothers you because you’re still carrying everything he did, while he shows nothing. i’ve seen that before. the imbalance makes it feel worse than the breakup itself.
Maybe so. Since we live in the same area, I'm bound to face him sooner or later. And everytime I even brush past, even if I'm on a different lane, I feel this knot in my stomach, and this tightness on my chest, and then I see him, happy and jolly. And all the flashbacks rush back to haunt me again.
i remember feeling crushed seeing mine laugh like he never tore me apart. it doesn’t make sense in the moment. i just know it’s normal to feel sick when the one who hurt you looks fine.
That is terrible. how are you holding up now❤
i wanted him to burn for what he did. every smile on his face felt like a slap. i sat there wrecked while he acted like nothing happened. it made me hate myself even more that i still cared.
Couldn't relate more!
Thank you so much love ❤ It helps me knowing there is good in this world 🫂
I’m sorry that happened to you. 💔 He is not worthy of your love. He knows exactly what he did to you and he did it anyway.
You are a better person. Heal and rise again and don’t look back. That’s the sweetest revenge you’ll get. He dosn’t deserve your tears or words, but you do them for you, because you deserves to heal. 🙏🏻❤️