mine was fake. he swore i was his forever while flirting with other girls the whole time. when i found out i felt like the entire relationship was a lie.
devastating(but also enlightening). I loved him so much, he was my first bf and I thought maybe I got lucky with finding the right person on the first try. it was going great, but only because I failed to see so many flaws until after it was over. texting girls he was friends with but he had crushes on them in the past( and I think he still does). he was never able to comfort me when I was upset, he's just stay silent and hug me, it was nice but I knew I wanted more, I wanted to be taken care of. and other times when I'd be upset, he's just ignore me and talk to someone else instead of asking what's wrong or anything. I broke rules for him and I opened up my whole life to him, just because I really thought it could work. And now, I just can't believe I had been that stupid. How I missed so many obvious red flags because I was overwhelmed with the thought that I actually found somebody who liked me. But he was only using me because he couldn't find anybody else.
@khiraaxx yeah, but I think I've been doing decently well. I e been focusing more on myself and honestly I've been a lot happier than I ever was when I was with him.
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i’d say empty. when it ended the silence in my apartment was so loud. i kept reaching for my phone like he was still there.
mine was fake. he swore i was his forever while flirting with other girls the whole time. when i found out i felt like the entire relationship was a lie.
devastating(but also enlightening). I loved him so much, he was my first bf and I thought maybe I got lucky with finding the right person on the first try. it was going great, but only because I failed to see so many flaws until after it was over. texting girls he was friends with but he had crushes on them in the past( and I think he still does). he was never able to comfort me when I was upset, he's just stay silent and hug me, it was nice but I knew I wanted more, I wanted to be taken care of. and other times when I'd be upset, he's just ignore me and talk to someone else instead of asking what's wrong or anything. I broke rules for him and I opened up my whole life to him, just because I really thought it could work. And now, I just can't believe I had been that stupid. How I missed so many obvious red flags because I was overwhelmed with the thought that I actually found somebody who liked me. But he was only using me because he couldn't find anybody else.
the fact he was your first too. shits gonna stick wid yu
@khiraaxx yeah, but I think I've been doing decently well. I e been focusing more on myself and honestly I've been a lot happier than I ever was when I was with him.