I'm at a complete loss now. I ended it of course but now I just feel clueless and so hurt. All I want to do is lie here and do nothing. I don't have any friends or hobbies anymore she and I did everything together and now it's all gone.
Is there any good way to get over something like this? The pain is just so overwhelming.
Last updated on:2025-09-04T05:11:02+05:30
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What exactly were in the snaps? Is she just having dinner with him or something? Or did she lie about where she was or who she was with?
Block her and stay away man. We need mental peace. If you need to talk I’m here for you brother 🫡
It’s completely normal to feel lost and overwhelmed after a breakup, especially when it feels like your whole world revolved around that relationship. Here are a few things that might help you during this tough time:
1. *Give yourself permission to grieve*: It’s okay to feel the pain and take time to process your emotions. Allow yourself to feel sad, angry, or whatever comes up.
2. *Reach out for support*: If you have family members or acquaintances you can talk to, don’t hesitate to reach out. Sometimes sharing your feelings with someone who cares about you can help.
3. *Rediscover old hobbies or try new ones*: You mentioned you and your partner did everything together, so now might be a great time to explore interests you might have put aside or try something entirely new. This can help you build a sense of identity outside the relationship.
4. *Take small steps*: You don’t have to do everything at once. Start with small, manageable tasks or activities that bring you a little joy or distraction.
5. *Practice self-compassion*: Be kind to yourself during this time. Healing takes time, and it’s okay to not be okay right now.
6. *Consider professional help*: If the pain feels too much to handle on your own, talking to a therapist or counselor might provide you with additional support and coping strategies.
Remember, it’s okay to take your time and go at your own pace. You’ll get through this, and things will get better.
Well my man the trash took itself out. She did you a favor.
block all and every form of contact with her.
I am in the same situation... Moved to his city 6 months ago and he broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I don't have any friends here at all. No hobbies, because nothing brings me joy anymore. I only work, go on walks with my dog and sleep. I came to accept that it will probably be like this for a while now and that I just need to sit with the pain. People say it gets better, so I try to believe them and hope things will be different in a month or so...