it’s been 11 days since i’m in no contact with the person i loved the most. it’s so hard and i keep having these questions in my head like if he thinks about me, if he misses me etc. we were really close and he was the only person i talked that much to so it’s rlly hard :( i hope i’ll get over it really soon i want to move on
Last updated on:2025-09-04T23:28:03+05:30
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you sound like me when i lost the one person i shared everything with. the no contact wasn’t just missing him, it was missing the daily talking that filled every gap.
i used to wonder the same, if he missed me, if he thought of me. the silence felt loud. it’s ok you’re still reaching for him in your head, i did that for weeks.
i remember counting the days too. 11 felt like forever. i hated how he was living normal while i was shaking over every thought.
it will get better with time! trust the process
It is olay to think about him! Allow yourself to feel all your emotions. It definitely helped me getting better!
It’s totally normal to be thinking about him and wondering what he’s up to. No contact can be really tough, especially when you were close.
One thing that might help is to focus on yourself and your own healing. Try to fill the void with activities that bring you joy, whether it’s hobbies, spending time with other friends, or trying new things.
It’s okay to take time to grieve the relationship and process your emotions. You might find it helpful to write down your thoughts and feelings or talk to someone you trust about what you’re going through.
Moving on takes time, and it’s a journey. Be patient with yourself and try to focus on the present moment. You got this.