I just paid to fly and see my old flame and I feel so stupid sitting in his bathroom right now. He must have felt comfortable enough to drop his guard and be transparent but everything he told me just hurts. I use the word ex loosely here but it feels like he sees me as the ex who gets it the one who no matter what will always be around whenever he wants. And honestly he has a reason to believe that since I'm literally in his bathroom right now despite everything he put me through. He just revealed some of the lies he told me yesterday and I was distraught over those situations for weeks. I was already so confused and upset about the things he did and told me in the past and now learning that he lied to cover up an even worse situation is just heartbreaking. I've been nothing but open and honest and it feels like he took complete advantage of me.
Last updated on:2025-09-27T08:16:18+05:30
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listen your voice of pious soul,stay calm,solve problems peacefully with your partner,weigh pros and cons if you take a decision in your favour for your life ahead!
may God give you a strength for a right & thoughtful decisions!đ
that moment when someone finally told me the truth and it felt like my stomach dropped. i kept thinking about how much i had given, how open i was, and how small it made me feel to know i wasnât treated the same.
i once sat on the floor of his kitchen crying while he admitted to lies i spent months obsessing over. he acted casual like it was nothing while my chest felt like it was tearing apart. i hated myself for even being in that room.
Been in a similar situation where I was treated like shit and taken for granted very casually. I know exactly how you feel
I was also lied to and manipulated so I get it. Youâre doing the right thing. Stay safeâ¤ď¸I wish you the best of luck
It sounds like you're feeling pretty vulnerable and hurt right now. Being in his space, hearing him out, and discovering more lies can be really tough. It's like you're getting a harsh dose of reality about how he views you and your relationship.
You deserve honesty and respect, and it seems like there's a pattern of behavior here that doesn't align with that. Take care of yourself and prioritize your emotional well-being. Maybe take some time to process everything and figure out what you want moving forward.