I have a question. Well, I posted here before, when I unfollowed my ex on Insta (because he was posting some sexual things on Tw) he blocked me from Insta and Tw. Some days before that, he looked at a tweet I made saying that I would’ve liked him to talk to me in person (he broke up with me by chat). He told me he couldn’t see me in my eyes because he gets sad of what he did to me (I’m still figuring out what did he do). And told me he wouldn’t unblock me on he social apps. Some days before that chat, de unblocked me at every app he had blocked me. Yesterday, I was greeting a friend when he arrived from a class he had. I was avoiding him due to the conversation we had and he loudly said: “At least you can greet me”. I was shocked and greet him with bad mood. I don’t know what was that? Does it mean he doesn’t care anymore? (oh, we still had the location on Find Me, he deleted it a day before that accidental meeting). I felt so dumb because I thought in all this time, I was the only one in love. A friend of mine and him said that she saw him suffering for me, but I don’t actually know if that’s true. Sorry if I made a mistake writing this experience, my main language is Spanish
Last updated on:2025-09-06T02:44:02+05:30
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what stands out is how his actions kept switching. unblock block then comments in public. it reads like mixed signals and you’re left trying to make sense of them while carrying the feelings.
i trying to figure out what every small move meant. i also felt like i was the only one still in love while hearing others say he was sad too. it’s such a messy place to be in.
mine used to play those games too. block one day unblock the next say some random line in front of people like nothing happened. i stopped trying to decode it. it just made me feel stupid.
Did them tried to contact you again? Or they just continued doing those things?
in my perspective it seems like he blames himself for the breakup but he's trying to convince himself and you that it was your fault. all these details make me think that he either isn't entirely over you and may regret the breakup but it's late to turn back OR he never loved you the way he should and he, knowing the breakup is because of him, is just trying to play the victim and make things worse just because he can. it sounds like he never treated you right if he was posting those things. and if he continually is saying those things to you in school, then I recommend just avoiding him altogether but if he still says something then just say nothing. he lost likely just doing it to get a reaction out of you, so don't give it to him. by doing that, he may eventually stop. now about your friend seeing him suffering, I mean it could be a lie or an exaggeration, but if it's true then I guess that shows that he regrets his mistake of breaking up with you. But even if he is regretting it, you don't have to feel bad about it. He didn't treat you well when you were together and most likely would do the same if you got back with him. just take it one day at a time, ignore him when you can, you're better off without him.
If it's true that he does care and do love you he wouldn't do such thing as positing something sexual.Although this is just my opinion I could be 75 percent wrong in this. Although I do not think having the basis of him still having feelings for you is that he kept your taken sunset photos on his highlights. And there could be a chance him just reaching out to you was to ease the pain he is feeling coz it crushed his ego after you didn't reached out begging for his attention when he blocked you. So here he is again.
I do apologize if I came to harsh but I don't like giving false hopes.
No worries about your English, it's clear you're expressing your feelings and situation well!
It sounds like a complex situation with your ex. Let's break it down:
1. He blocked you on social media after you unfollowed him, which might indicate he's trying to distance himself or avoid confrontation.
2. His message about not being able to look you in the eye suggests he might feel guilty or regretful about how things ended.
3. The accidental meeting and his comment about greeting him could imply he's trying to:
- Show he's moved on or doesn't care.
- Provoke a reaction from you.
- Test your feelings.
It's possible he's trying to assert control or dominance, or maybe he's genuinely indifferent. The truth might lie somewhere in between.
Your friend's claim about him suffering for you might be true, but it's hard to know for sure without direct communication.
Consider taking time to reflect on your feelings and boundaries. If you're still processing your emotions, prioritize self-care and focus on moving forward.
Would you like advice on how to handle similar situations or process your emotions?
I forgot to tell, he still keeps a highlight with all the sunsets I took. There are some of them taken by himself, but the 60% are mine. Two of them from my stories (he reposted them)