My boyfriend of eight months just broke up with me on Monday. He’s gone through lifelong depression, and he said that at the moment all he wanted is to be alone and to make changes in his life. I can’t really understand what he’s thinking and I feel confused and hurt. obviously I’m giving him that space now, but I miss him so much. he and I are planning on reconnecting in two months and I’m not even sure if it’s a good idea or not. I just miss my sweet boy.
Last updated on:2025-09-06T04:51:02+05:30
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you’re holding onto the idea of reconnecting later but what’s really happening now is you’re hurting and he’s gone. i used to cling to those future plans, they kept me hanging in the present.
i remember missing the way he laughed even after he pulled away. my chest hurt from how quiet everything got. it’s normal you miss him i did too even when i knew he wasn’t coming back the same.
mine said the same thing needed to be alone needed space. it felt like he was choosing his sadness over me. i hated how i had no say in it just had to sit with the ache.
Ultimately it’s up to them to heal themselves but man do I wish I could be there with him for it
@JoySparks671 i have the same issues 😭 it's almost 2 month right now and i dont think it's nice idea to contact him. More you reach him, more he goo. In the end, he need heal first and reach us later. if he wanna he will... 🥲