I regret my decision so much. I could’ve waited. I could’ve given us a longer time. I’m not confident we would’ve last forever but I gave up too quickly. once doubt came in my mind I allowed it to consume me and when I talked to others I led with bad things but not the good and so everyone encouraged me to leave him but they didn’t know the good and now he’s gone. I got consumed with the possible bad because we have different beliefs, goals and values and I got scared our incompatibility would mess us up in the future but it didn’t in the present so I didn’t have to break up with him. I miss him so much. I feel physically ill today. it’s day 3
Last updated on:2025-09-09T05:56:03+05:30
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you’re replaying every choice and weighing the what ifs, that’s what usually happens when someone still misses the person a lot
wishing i’d held on longer even knowing it wasn’t perfect. it hurt so much and i remember that ache in my chest
i know that sick feeling, i rushed out too. every doubt felt like the only truth. i regret it every damn day
i feel you! i regret it too and my friends influenced me to do it, but they don’t know him and not every guy is bad..
I wish I could say that it will get easier but I’m on day 73 and there where a chunk of days I thought I was healing just to be ripped right back to the aching for him. You are so so early in this healing journey so be kind to yourself and take a daily reminder that you can do hard things. It may not be pretty but we can do the hard things that need to be done to grow beauty and health and strength. <3
It's been four months since my breakup and I feel the exact same way!