so before I met her, I was a very active guy, I would travel, go to gym daily, go out everytime. since she broke up with me. I am left with no feelings of enjoyment. There's no single task that I find enjoyable. I feel have no vision, no motive to do anything. I stay in one room just hoping her to come back may be. I don't even know if I really want her back. I really want to get out of all these feelings but I am not able to.
Last updated on:2025-09-09T01:44:03+05:30
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you’re trapped between wanting her back and hating how much space this takes in your life. i’ve seen that before, you’re just stuck in the pause.
i spent weeks just lying around, pretending to sleep or scroll, avoiding everything i liked. it’s okay that nothing feels fun right now, i did the same and slowly it crept back without me forcing it.
thanks for assuring... I hope I start feeling myself again soon...
i know that numb feeling. used to sit on my bed all day staring at the walls doing nothing feeling like every part of me stopped. wanted her back hated myself for wanting her back.
Give it time. Each day it will get slightly easier. The thing that helped me the most was going on small walks with a friend or family member, and just chatting. Start working on yourself, don't look for the person you want to spend your life with, become the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
thanks... this community is the only thing which I'm left with right now.