as hard as it may be, I've made the decision to cut contact. He's part of the vulnerable population but has the oppurtunity to come out, has had that oppurtunity for 2 years and doesn't want to take it. Why should I keep waiting around, hurting myself by seeing him that way when he knows how much it hurts me and continues to do it ?
Last updated on:2025-09-09T06:28:02+05:30
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you’ve reached the point where waiting is just adding pain. you’re done carrying it for him, that’s clear in your words.
felt that pain too, watching someone i cared about stay stuck while i got shredded inside. cutting contact felt awful at first but also like i was protecting the little self i had left.
i did the same thing. waited and waited, hurt myself over and over, and he never changed. finally i snapped and cut it all. felt like ripping a bandage but also finally breathing.