okkkayyy sooo the thing is that I have been dating this guy since 5 years and he was very serious about me and same goes with me both our mom's knew about each other mine knew that he was a good friend but his mom knew that we were dating and we do genuinely do wanna get married etc etc and i didn't asked him to tell his mom but he did told her...green flag? maybe...then he also deactivated his original account not because I asked him but because he genuinely didn't wanted me to get insecure a green flag? maybe but the thing is that i found out that he activated his account and it made me sick to my stomach the thought of letting him go? made me genuinely sad so I confronted him...it was imperfectly perfect and i realised that no matter what there will always be this spark between us...but yesterday i said that yk what? add me on ig and he did send me a follow request but I didn't accepted it then I send one and he did not ego?? HELL YEAH...so I told him that either accept my request or never talk to me again and guess what?? he ghosted me for 2 hours and then texted me saying i also send you but you didn't accepted it and the fact that I was ghosted for 2 hours made me mad and i didn't talked to him and i ghosted him and he didn't double texted me either so idk but I have this another ig and it's like my stalking id and he send a friend request there but immediately removed it...was he stalking me?? idk cause that stalking id is very secretive no one knows about that ig of mine...so I have this telegram okay? AND the thing is that I need to attend video lectures in telegram AND for that I need to stay active for more than 2 hrs approx...sooo I was thinking that i should just simply open my last seen and online and let him burn in jealousy...come'on guys it's not THAT STUPID (please just think about it 5 years relationship and he's my first love) anyways cutting the craps tell me your genuine advice...looking forward for your help guyysss🫶🏻🦢
Last updated on:2025-09-08T22:10:04+05:30
Comments (3)
both of you kept testing each other, follow requests, ghosting, waiting on replies. the stalking account thing shows how deep it went. sounds less about instagram and more about control between you two.
i used to try little tricks like that too, hoping he’d feel jealous or miss me. it always came from me hurting, wanting him to notice me more. i get why you’d wanna flip it back on him.
5 years and he still played these ego games, i’d lose my mind too. the ghosting, the stupid follow request dance, i remember begging my ex to just accept it and stop acting like a child. instead he left me hanging and i felt pathetic for caring that much.