hi... so me and ex whenever we fought, I would always go back to her apologizing, make her understand that I'm not what she is thinking of me and we would then get together. since breakup, she has blocked and unblocked me multiple times, she has told me to stay away and never contact her. she told me that she feels way better now that she is not with me and feels free. I have the understanding that I shouldn't bother and try to move on but I have this urge to just try one last time. we fought because I have always been asking her to give me some time. she always used to prioritise everything else and even not call me. I told her that if we want to continue this relationship then atleast show some efforts. I felt very unwanted with her. in the end she told me that I was interfering and beigh toxic. all those time together I had always been with her through everything. whenever she needed me I was always there for her. helped her out everyday. in the end all had to listen was that I was toxic. this made me feel really bad about myself.
Last updated on:2025-09-08T23:08:03+05:30
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you kept showing up when she asked but when you asked her for the bare minimum she called it too much. i remember that imbalance it made me question if i was the problem too.
i used to replay her words in my head, wondering how after all i did for her, she could call me that. it broke me for a while.
they just never understand... will never do... it's sad to know that we chose wrong people to love.
gave everything, begged for scraps, then got labeled toxic. it made me sick how quick she flipped the script. i hated myself for even wanting her back after that.
sorry for always commenting back on these lol, I just have the same exact situations and they really do suck. I went right back and apologized to him even if he was in the wrong just because I didnt want to lose him. but those people arnt worth our time, their just toxic. they make us out to be the bad ones even to their friends or the people around you and them you look like the bad person but you reallt arnt, its them. if you ever wanna message me or talk about it or anything ever im here to talk because I was in the same situation for over a year and its so draining so I understand where your coming from
thanks for your support... it gives comfort to know that I'm not alone in this. this community has given me some strength to live day by day.