On the 6th day. Even if I told him that I need distance to process it the break up, he can't let me be. It's the second bread crumb. Just a random text on Thursday. But today he called. Twice.
Luckily I prepared myself for this and already feel strong enough. So, I answered to hear what he had to say.
He asked me 2 questions about my day. I knew immediately that he just tried to do some small talk.
Then he said that we would probably still be together if our relationship would have looked differently. Differently how?! I literally did EVERYTHING for him! The whole relationship was based on his conditions in the end. I was the one who was broken from all the emotional weight, but he still left.
I didn't take it. I replied, that he broke up because HE wanted to be single. I can't listen to any more new "reasons" he comes up with. I am tired.
I asked for the reason of his call and he really said that he wanted to check in on me. I didnt believe it for a split second and he got offended when I told him that he can just tell me what he needs. Then he just tried to make ME feel bad for the time I was talking "too long" with a guy that approached me. His jealousy can't be topped. No apology whatsoever from his side.
I asked him if that was all, he responded "yes" and I ended the call.
5min later I got a text message from him where he wrote that he "forgives me" (for what exactly?!), that he wants peace and wishes me well.
I didn't respond.
I don't believe him one second. But don't know what his agenda is. Something feels off.
Last updated on:2025-09-08T23:06:03+05:30
Comments (4)
he wanted to test if he still had access to you. he left, but still expected you to explain yourself and give him space to be jealous. you caught it fast and ended the call, that mattered.
i felt that same confusion when mine called just to “check in.” it sounded caring but underneath it hurt more, because i knew he didn’t actually see the damage he caused. i’m glad you told him what you felt instead of swallowing it.
my ex did that too. dropping in like he was the one deciding when we talk, pretending it’s about me but really it’s about control. i remember feeling so pissed, like stop messing with my head if you already dumped me.
I had experienced the same 2 weeks ago. she called after 10 days of no contact... asked me about how I was... later on blamed me for everything over text and blocked me. since the she has been blocking and unblocking me continuously... I didn't know for how long I could handle it. so blocked her from everywhere. it's been 7 days. they just come back whenever you start healing.