I genuinely can’t even imagine being in love with another person. every time I look at another guy I think of him and how perfect he is and how he is exactly my type. he was so sweet to me. I just want him back. :(
Last updated on:2025-09-08T21:06:03+05:30
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reading this reminded me of how i used to say no one else even looked right. it wasn’t about the people around me, it was about how my mind kept circling back to only one person.
i felt that too, like my brain replayed all the sweet parts and blocked out the rest. i couldn’t picture anyone else for a long time. it’s normal you want him back right now.
thinking no one would ever compare. like every face just looked wrong. i hated how sweet he was to me, because now it felt like a scam.
I relate to this so so much. He was exactly what I was looking for. Except that when I start looking closer, I see some tiny red flags I had ignored. Also, how can I say he was what I was looking for if he chose to not be with me? The person I’m looking for is a person that stays. Therefore, he’s not who I’m looking for… He’s just someone who looks a lot like him.
I feel the same but here’s some good news I thought the same about my previous ex who was abusive and I managed to get over him and that was the worst one it’s possible for us we can do this