Even when things seem like they'll never get better, the world always has a funny way of proving us wrong. But in the meantime, take this time to find your inner peace and to love yourself.
The key to a successful relationship is that is requires two people who love themselves along with each other. Learn to love everything that makes you you. You are special and you are loved.
You deserve to find real love and one day you will find it. But it takes time. Let yourself heal, go do your favorite things and love your life.
We all only get one, and surely we shouldn't waste it missing the people who never truly valued us.
I know we can all get through this, stay strong and just keep telling yourself you're so much better without them.
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Last updated on:2025-09-08T23:11:25+05:30
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someone writing more for themselves than for anyone else. like you’re trying to convince yourself while also saying it to others. i did that too, kept typing things i wished i felt.
well no, actually I was writing for the other people. I wanted to write for the other people still hurting things that helped me when I was still hurting. But now, I would say that I've healed and moved on.
i used to read posts like yours late at night and it gave me a little calm for a moment. even if i couldn’t believe it yet i liked seeing someone remind me there’s more to life than missing one person.
when people told me stuff like this i wanted to scream. i didn’t care about self love or peace. i just wanted him back. none of the pretty words touched what it actually felt like.
I feel that right now even though I know better, but the hurt won't stop and I know if he was here it wouldn't be like that. I also know he wouldn't be happy here.i know his want to be with other women outweighs his want to be back home with me, instead.
Im sorry, this post was meant to just be a little reminder to everyone who was struggling last night or at any point. It's definitely something I would have wanted to see 3 months ago, so I thought I could help others with it. I know you're hurting, but eventually it will get better. But the first step is to move on. move on without him. He was taken out of your life for a reason, whether you realized it or not.
@SparkByte360 Don't burden yourself with thoughts about if he was still here, okay? It's just an open door to make the pain worse than it already is and it's not worth it. If he wanted to be with other women while in your relationship, then he was never worth it. I know it can be hard to imagine, but one day someone will come along and treat you right and never make you hurt like how he did.