it's very tough for me whenever I woke up I had a dream of him and I miss him so badly whenever I woke up I feel like that I want to make a call but i can't I have to live like this i don't know when he will stop comming in my dreams
Last updated on:2025-09-09T10:25:03+05:30
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I lost our baby a week ago and not once did he show up or check on me the day I miscarried he told me he needed space because im not good enough for him anymore and yet I still miss him like crazy is this normal.
Hold the courage lady I know you are so strong and you will achieve everything in your life ❤️
your brain keeps him alive even when your body doesn’t see him, the dreams are hitting you hard, and you’re caught between wanting to reach out and knowing you can’t
yup that's all true
the dream felt real and my heart sank when i opened my eyes, it’s okay to feel like that, i stayed in bed just holding my phone, pretending i could reach him
i just don't want to go back to him but that anxiety sometimes it's scare me that hope i will not break the rule of no contact
Last time i have that situation before, then i try to message my friends, send the random reels, story or whatever. So everytime i have a dream of him, when i'm open my phone my brain switch to reply their messages first and enjoy talk with them in the end.
i think it's quite help for me as i will messages him everyday and we broke up i feel so empty, wanna call, wanna messages huftt. Well, i'm also still heal, i know you also can pass throught this girll ❣️
thanku ❤️
anytime i wake up, wether a nap or a sleep, i check my phone and it hurts so much when theres nothing and takes everything not to reach out. thats why I'm thankful for this app, I just come on here instead and feel so much less alone. ❤️
yup this app is so helpful I am glad that i found it
Yes! This app is truly a lifesaver! Everyone on here is so kind and helpful! It's nice to chat with others who are going through the same thing. We got this y'all!
i hated waking up from dreams about him felt like someone ripped my chest open again i wanted to call too but blocking or not calling made no difference it just burned inside
yup yup getting it i know i shouldn't contact him hope I will be able to forget him 😭
I had a five-year relationship and when it ended, I had this recurring dream where I was begging him to get back together and he’d accept and I’d feel joy and relief. I’d wake up and realize we’re not back together and I’d feel sick to my stomach everytime. I had this dream until way after I was over him and living happily. I didn’t understand why I’d still dream about it even after I’d got over him. I wouldn’t even think about him anymore, he just came to me in dreams and I honestly didn’t even have feelings for him anymore.
Three years later, I am now going through another breakup, after a very short relationship. I am now having the SAME exact dream, but with this more recent guy. It was only then that I understood that the problem is not getting over exes, but the feeling of rejection, of not being enough, and those follows me regardless of a breakup. It lasts longer than the heartbreak for exes. It’s something I am trying to work through in therapy and that I need to heal from.
hope you feel better soon 🥹🤌🏻
I had the same dream about my ex husband. Me wanting to get back together and chasing him and him rejecting me every single time. I had this dream for many years after the divorce.
Well I know this feeling but trust me today am happy and jamming to my favorite songs,trust the more u leave without something u learn to live without it,so be happy set a goal and trust me all all will be well
thanku so much this was needed 🥹
I know the exact feeling, just yesterday I dreamt about her. we were together and happy. when I woke up and realised that it was just a dream and in reality it totally different. my urges for making a contact increase. I start stalking and I feel really miserable throughout the day, helpless. We can't do anything but just wait and hoping to get over this soon.
same and i don't want to break the rule of no contact 😭 and after dreams it get increase the urge to talk to them
just one thing do you contact her after the dream or if not then how you manage yourself
@shrutea18 initially whenever this happened it contacted her.. but she would just keep on blaming me and this would take me back to the day one. I learned that it would just you more miserable about yourself and you have to start your healing journey once again. so it's better to just keep this to ourselves and try to submerge this urge... I know this could be very difficult but believe me you are better off not contacting them. if they really want you back then they would show the efforts. otherwise we would just have to suffer this pain and hope that we would get better.
@WildSun535 thanku so much ❤️