i feel like it’s not even no contact anymore. we’re just done. he’s never coming back to me. i won’t allow myself to come back to him because i did it way too many times so we’re just over. i don’t think he will ever break no contact since i made it a habit of always breaking it before him, he thinks i’ll do it again someday
Last updated on:2025-09-10T03:54:03+05:30
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you’ve flipped the pattern. before you broke no contact, now you won’t. so he’s waiting on something that isn’t happening. it shifts the whole dynamic.
i used to tell myself i wouldn’t reach out anymore, then i’d feel weak and do it. when i finally stopped, it was the most painful silence. it makes sense you feel like it’s really done now.
yeah i remember that exact thought. like i finally knew it was over but it felt like i lost twice, first him then the hope. i hated that he probably sat there waiting for me to cave again.
I'm in the same boat as you my friend. my ex, she always thinks and has literally said that I'll always come back to her. but not anymore. I'm fed up with her behaviour just leaving me like this and enjoying her life. I have decided that no matter what this time I'll never contact her again. if it ends here then it ends here. I tiered of begging for love. but not anymore.
This is such an important step! From now on you can turn all of your energy and attention to yourself!