what they said was true

the poster is trying to pace themselves, noticing the spikes of pain and letting it exist without pretending it’s gone, that’s what i did too

That's truee, time really healed me. But sometimes i'm still thinking, How can someone who scared i leaved, leaved me first. Like our memories nothing for him. Then thinking, i should not go outside with him and enjoy my life like i did before.. I love him but i regret to love him, i don't deserve this pain..

We have a couple doll, he promises he will give back that doll to me when i'm back after short LDR. But when i asking, he say wanna save it for memories.. i still dont understand.. if you still love me.. why you leave when i'm back :)

yearningwei 6 mths ago

people change and feelings change. he is not a man of his words and it's fine, one day you will find someone who truly loves you and make his promise come true.

right now it is still painful, but one day you will wake up not feeling anything 🫶🏻

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crying for hours thinking it would never stop, and then one morning it just hurt less, not gone but lighter, that part is true, it does get easier

yearningwei 6 mths ago

yes, that's normal. you love them too much that's why it hurts too much too. one day you will wake up and not feel anything. just don't look back and stop checking on them so can finally move forward 🫂

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i hated hearing that when i was in it felt like a lie every day felt worse, still does sometimes sitting with it sucks but i did it anyway

yearningwei 6 mths ago

you can get through it! i swear it gets better. i've been there i thought i can't live without my ex but i did! and i'm still continuing to survive until now ❤️‍🩹

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