I think im slowly getting over him. I finally threw away the things that reminded me of him or put the things away hes bought me away. he keeps texting me, trying to make me jealous about talking about the girls hes been talking to and calling. but it never goes right for him everytime so this this time I wasnt jealous somehow. I told him I have been snapping this guy a lot and he just said "oh yeah cool" while I was telling him im glad he was talking to someone and thats its nice in a kind way, not dry like her was. mabye its mean of me for feeling good about making him jealous but hes been doing it to me for almost 3 months and I finally took my power back, mabye thats petty but I felt good about it. and I think im finally letting go knowing if its right he'll come back if not ill get over him soon. he kept sending me funny videos and talking to me today after I threw away his things and things ive wrote about him which was a weird coincidence because he had no clue. and he hasn't talked to me like this in a couple weeks and a bit before we broke up he stopped sending me those funny videos, I dont know if im crazy or petty. but I think these may be signs of him finally wanting to get a bit closer again, can anyone help me out?
Last updated on:2025-09-11T00:58:02+05:30
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you notice he started texting more right after you got rid of his stuff. that timing feels big to you, like maybe it means something. i did the same thing, waiting for small changes in how he talked to me, wondering if it was a shift or just random.
i get that feeling of relief when you finally aren’t jealous anymore. i remember the first time i felt that, it was like i could breathe again. even if you think it’s petty, it makes sense after everything he’s done.
i used to throw his shit in a box then he’d pop up acting like he cared again. it made me furious cause i knew he only did it when he felt me slipping. i told myself it was a sign too. it wasn’t, it was just him not wanting me but not wanting to lose me either.
im so glad this has happened to someone to. its weird how they feel it, but yeah he just wants to keep me around and to not move on but im finally taking my power back and not letting him be the only thing I "need"