After the break up I have realised a lot of things mainly that before anything else I am human and so is she I made mistakes and so did she I still have a lot of anger towards her and myself for the mistakes but. I am a human at the end I can give all the reason why I am the victim and she is the bad guy and how she should have forgiven me by now but it's all in vain. I should firstly forgive myself secondly forgive her and then ask for forgiveness cause there is no forgiveness without forgiving first and if she doesn't that ok too cause I have grown from it and that's all that matters.
Last updated on:2025-09-14T14:58:03+05:30
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when i finally admitted i hurt him too. it felt less lonely to see us both as human. forgiving myself took longer. i still slip sometimes, but it doesn’t sting the same.
i told myself the same shit that i grew from it that i forgave. truth is i was still pissed, still replaying the fights in my head. saying i forgave her didn’t stop me from hating her name on my phone.
hurting from someone action and forgiveness can be achieved at the same time
Glad to hear you grown of it. People always make mistakes and it's normal. Just try to fix it, grow, and be better for next. No need rush and let it be, You can do it ❣️