almost day 2 of no contact. i saw no activity on fb which was a huge help but he obviously found a phone cuz his friend list went wayyyyy up. i feel like a crazy stalker and knowing he was online and didnt message me after i sent him a bible before cutting contact is making me so mad and upset. its hard no to message and say something like "no answer? k cool" or something along those lines just to get his attention. I'm trying soooo hard not to break no contact. helpppp
Last updated on:2025-09-15T00:08:02+05:30
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you’re keeping track of every move he makes online. i used to count the friend list jumps and who got added. the more i noticed, the more restless i got.
thats how i feel so i made the decision to block him and delete social media. I realized it wouldn't change anything, i'm only hurting myself.
i did the bible thing too, poured my heart into something long and meaningful, and then nothing. i felt embarrassed for even sending it. i get why it stings so much right now.
staring at the green dot on messenger and wanting to smash my phone. i typed out “cool, no reply” more times than i can count. i hated how i was begging for scraps while he just scrolled like nothing.
you Will get his attention by doing what he does not expect you to do: be silent. he is expecting you to case, so surprise him with no chase, no long texts, nothing.
you Will look anxious and needy, please stay strong. i did all that and it made it much worst. fake it till you make was my moto to apear to be a high value woman.
i've been reading "let them" and it has helped wonders. just wasnt expecting to see a change after checking 50 times a day and it being the same. i want to block him but have to wait until the 48 hours is up (some point today). I just have to keep saying "let them, let them, let them".