so it is day 46 of no contact for me and I am feeling good in myself. I have been doing lots of work on myself and giving the love to me instead of him and I am starting to see how much of myself that I gave away to him. I have fully accepted the breakup now and have given myself the closure that he never had the courage to give.
I feel stronger in my mind and body and this grows a little more as each day passes.
I journal a lot now and I find putting my feelings and emotions on paper really helps and when I look back at the very beginning of the breakup as to where I am now it shows quite clearly the progress I have made.
I can promise you it does get easier but everyone works and progresses at their own pace.
Whilst working on myself I have now realised why this relationship would never have worked out and am cool with that. I know it was for the best that we spilt and I wish him well.
But with saying this I know that I will never loose who I am as a person ever again to another man. This relationship ending has given me the strength to find and love myself once again and no matter what happens moving forward I will never forget the lessons I have learnt.
Wishing everyone a happy weekend and please if you are still struggling, I am here if you want to chat. Take care 🥰🥰🥰
Last updated on:2025-09-15T12:32:15+05:30
Comments (6)
you really tracked your own progress, noticed the patterns and made peace. that kind of self-reflection isn’t easy, shows you’ve been working hard on yourself
I have really been working hard on discovering my truth and it feels so damn good. Thank you 🙏
this makes me smile, i remember finally feeling like me again after months of confusion. journaling helped me too, even if it was messy
thank you and continue to move forward with purpose every day 🥰🥰
i get the feeling, i used to give everything too, then realized i had nothing left for myself. it’s wild how much anger and relief can sit together
it most certainly is but we have survived and moving forward with purpose