I was in a relationship for two months with my best friend 5 monts before. I now its been a long time but i am really questioning my worth everyday since. When we got together we were both so happy because that was what we wanted from the begging of our friendship. She broke up with me bc she didn't feel the same anymore because she said she let herself and she didn't like it. I was so confused and i thought she never really loved me bc how do you stop having feeling for someone you said you love with your whole heart and wanted to marry each other. Then she told she had avoidant attachments but i never noticed this when we were at the relationship. She left to heal and find herself and thats okay she had a lot of issues and she wanted to fix it as she said. But now she got a new gf (her best friend). LIKE WHAT THE HELL. I cant move on guys i feel so betrayed
Last updated on:2025-09-15T03:49:02+05:30
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you’re stuck on the contrast between what you had and what she’s doing now. that gap makes moving on almost impossible for you, you’re still living in that shock of betrayal
feeling exactly like you, like my heart got ripped out and then someone else filled the space i thought was ours. it sucked, it really did, it’s okay to feel betrayed
i felt it too. all that “i love you” shit and then boom, someone else. it made me question everything about myself, hated how easy it seemed for them to move on
how do you heal from that. How do you move on
I dont know if she loved me or was i a challenge that she had to win. She liked for 9 months but i only saw her that way 1-2 months before we started dating. And i think that she just wanted me to like her. and that fucking hurts and its killing me. the fact that she made me fall in love with her and then she took it all back drives me crazy. she said se was sorey and that she really really loved me and never lied to me about that. BUT HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE. YOU LOVE ME BUT YOU LEAVE ME LIKE THAT?!?!?!