I messed up.

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I broke no contact and ended up texting my ex after trying to see someone else. It was only small talk but I tried to say something relavent to both our interests and now I'm regretting it and realized I just hurt myself in the process. Moving on is such a struggle when I really don't want to lose her

Last updated on:2025-09-15T07:05:04+05:30

Comments (5)

sweetpatato
sweetpatato 6 mths ago

you’re still holding onto her in some way, even trying to move on didn’t stop that pull, that’s what shows here

chickpia
chickpia 6 mths ago

reaching out even when i knew it would hurt, it felt so small and heavy at the same time, i felt every word i typed

MainCheck
MainCheck 6 mths ago

yep i did the same, texting like an idiot thinking i could handle it, just ended up feeling stupid and worse than before

Mustbequeen
Mustbequeen 6 mths ago

No worries, It's normal when you want to chat with her again and can't hold it, it's part of the process of moving on. In the future, there will be a time when you're tired and don't want to chat with her anymore and focus on your life.

Maybe you met at the wrong time, if she's for you, the universe will bring you together again.❣️

SadFox
SadFox 6 mths ago

its in those moments that I like to remind myself that "time and space will heal both of us". respect yourself and respect her by allowing the space you both need to heal your wounds, if youre meant to be in the long run you won't lose her. but holding on too tight out of fear will hurt both of you