I was dating this guy for a few months and we shared some truly beautiful moments together. But deep down something always felt off for him even when everything felt right to me.
I thought he just needed time. Turns out he believed he’d already made it clear he didn’t want more. We had a video call recently it started out warm until he asked if I was still in love with him.
I won’t go into all the details but we’re no longer seeing each other. And honestly it feels like a punch straight to the heart.
I’ve never felt more loved than I did with him… and now it’s just gone. Thankfully I have my cats and some amazing friends to lean on.
But god this hurts more than I expected. Letting go of someone who once felt like home is never easy.
Last updated on:2025-09-16T00:16:03+05:30
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can i ask… did you feel like he ever led you on, or was it more like you were hoping he’d change his mind? i only ask cuz i’ve been stuck in both and they sting in different ways.
the way you said “felt like home” hit me. what helps me in that space is reminding myself that i was part of what made it feel like home. it wasn’t just them. you can build that feeling again, even if right now it feels impossible.
i feel this. i had a thing with someone where i swore it was love, like every hug felt like a safe place. then he told me he never saw it that way. it broke me because i thought i was building a home, but really i was renting a room in his life.